Category: Random

  • N is for Nightmares

    Why Writing is Like a Relationship Nightmares trend towards 2 rough category subjects – something we fear happening to ourselves or something we fear happening to a loved one. I don’t think there is a parent out that hasn’t had at least one nightmare involving their little darling. Horrific, nasty…

  • M is for Marriage

    Why Writing is Like a Relationship Oh, please. Don’t act shocked. I’m a woman using relationships as a metaphor. Of course “marriage” is going to work its way into the conversation somehow. But for the purposes of this post, marriage is not the ceremony nor the commitment. Marriage is what…

  • L is for Laughter

    Why Writing is Like a Relationship Right now, I’m watching a real relationship die in front of me. There isn’t much that can be done about it. I can’t force them to stay together. I can’t make them get a divorce. I can’t push them into counseling, get them to…

  • K is for Kicked-out

    Why Writing is Like a Relationship Break-ups are hard. Telling your boyfriend you don’t want to see them anymore. Cutting your friend off because they’re more of a user than friend. Your manuscript is not going to break up with you. You’re the one who does the dumping. “Listen, Delphia.…